Notes on the differing and possibly completely at-odds senses of meaning of the phrase, “do your best.”
While attempting to come up with a way in which I could get a cynical friend of mine to watch the excellent Pixar film Ratatouille, it fell to me to attempt to describe to him in a few words what the film’s general message is. There’s much there to be described, of course, and certainly not all of it congenial to his sensibilities, and I made the mistake of telling him that the movie is substantially about doing your best. “Ah jeez,” he muttered, and passed on the whole enterprise. He may come around yet, but his rejection of that theme was instructive.
The problem as I see it is that we were operating under different assumptions about just what “do your best” actually entails. I expressed it as a sentiment to be admired and towards which we might strive; it was received as a banal saying, divorced from any great meaning, and substantially wrong into the bargain. How could this have happened? I thought at first that it may simply have been a case of differing values between the two parties involved, but that did not seem likely upon further analysis.
A more intriguing possibility presented itself: the phrase actually has two meanings. He responded to one, while I had meant the other.
He could scarcely be blamed for responding to it in the manner in which he did, anyway, because the meaning he so deplored is far and away the most popular when it comes to the phrase’s utterance and reception, and is indeed precisely the sort of sentiment one would expect from an animated children’s film. That meaning is this: it doesn’t matter whether you succeed or fail, or whether people say you’re not good enough; just do your best and it will all work out. Such is the guiding ethos of countless works of art aimed at children, and stories of scrappy underdog sports teams or new kids in school or children thrust into some adult occupation would be nothing without it. There would be no loveable misfits or surprisingly competent waifs. There would be very little of all sorts of things.
The trouble with this reading of “do your best,” and why I think my interlocutor (rightly) rejected a film he thought propounded it, is that it is essentially predicated on a sort of magic. It is not the case that mere effort or a positive outlook will guarantee a favourable outcome. It may be the case that the runt or loner or nerd may have vast wellsprings of Spirit or Spunk or Moxie that will make up for deficiencies in strength, training or native skill, but those latter attributes will in all real cases carry the day ninety-nine times out of a hundred. I’m also greatly ill-at-ease with the cheerful unconcern with results that this reading engenders. I do not mean that we are to be consequentialists, by any means, but to say that success as a concept is irrelevant next to mere effort is insane.
Anyhow, it is not with such an idea that I attempted to convince my friend to see this movie, though he could, as I said, be forgiven for thinking as much. What I meant was quite different, and it is this: do your best, and nothing less. Of course it matters whether you succeed or not, and that’s why your best is required. Don’t hold back because of other people; don’t pretend to be mediocre to fit in. Whatever you turn your hand to, do it with all your might. Do your best!
Which is, as you see, something rather different.

